The Work-Life Question

I’ve just come across a New York Times article published in Feb 2016 titled Rethinking the Work-Life Equation as part of their Reimagining the Office series, aimed at corporations in office blocks. It was a brilliant series, and this article outlined the need and the justification not only for flexible working hours but for flexible working spaces as well.

This means that corporate employees would be free to work the times they wanted to, and where they wanted to. They could come into the office if they liked, or work from home, or Starbucks, or the pub. They could work mornings and late evenings, and do something else with the rest of their day. The idea is revolutionary in its domain in that it destroys the 9-5 concept of corporate structure, with emphasis being on the deliverables, not the means in which they were achieved.  As long as employees were delivering quality products on time, it did not matter where and when they worked.

It is understood that this is not for all walks of life, and not for careers that need to adhere to certain shifts and schedules.  Restaurant owners, doctors and nurses, school teachers, and research scientists are some of those who know very well that there is no such thing as a 9-5 day in their professions.  The start-up tech industry also has been using this framework for years already.  The article caught my eye and I’m highlighting it here because it speaks directly to a previous post of mine, Balance vs Integrate.

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Balance vs Integrate

The phrase “work-life balance” invokes the image of work on one hand and life on the other hand, and these hands are moving up and down weighing up one against the other. “Work” is supposed to invoke professional attitudes, meetings, importance, deadlines, phone calls, bringing home the bacon. “Life” is often a more confusing array of time for one’s self, one’s family, making sure dinner is on the table, attending school plays and not forgetting your spouse’s birthday.

Balance means this or that, balance means toppling heights of paperwork on one scale and emotional baggage on the other. Balance is like a yoga tree pose, it demands more than many of us can give. Achieving balance is a struggle, maintaining it is tricky.

But it need not be so.  I am one person, at work and in life, and my life includes my work and my work sustains my life. Without work I am nobody, without life I am dead. With this view, balance is impossible, work and life cannot be balanced, but they can be integrated.

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Start anywhere you like

It all starts when we are born.

It all starts again on the first day of school, a new job, a new date, a new house…

Then the idea is to progress from there in a straight line, our expectation being that this line is moving upwards, wherever it leads to is higher and better than where we were, and if there is a problem it is denoted by a downwards line (or spiral in some cases).

Except that life is not quite a straight line- it curves and bends, it sometimes goes backwards a bit before moving forwards again, progress is made on the work front while the family front stagnates, and then it flips because we can’t do it all.

The idea of linear expectations marching upwards is a myth, a fallacy, an illusion that causes us to get depressed, angry, demoralized when our nice straight line has trouble staying straight. Straight line implies unchanging. Straight line implies blinkered, stubborn and unmoving. Strength is in curvature, in flexibility and adaptability. Who says we have to start at the beginning? I urge you to start wherever you feel comfortable. It may be the beginning, it may be at a point along the middle – but if you don’t start somewhere you will never start, and starting is key.

So take a deep breath…

Ready?

Take another breath….

Plunge in.

photo by S.Khuri | coaster from Ana | Key Largo, FL, USA